一、哪有什么选择恐惧症，还不是因为穷；哪有什么优柔寡断，还不是因为怂。

There is no fear of choice， not because of poverty; There is no indecision， not because of cowardice.

二、人生没有白走的路，你现在的气质里，藏着你走过的路，读过的书和爱过的人。

Life is not a road in vain， your temperament now， hiding the road you have walked， read the book and loved the people.

三、不要贪恋没意义的人或事，拎着垃圾的手怎么腾得出来接礼物。

Don't cling to meaningless people or things， how to carry garbage hand out to receive gifts.

四、希望每次看到我的你，内心都确定：这就是我要的人，要陪伴我走过一生的人。而不是你左思右想，犹豫再犹豫的人。

I hope every time I see you， you will know in your heart that this is the right person for me， the one to accompany me through my life. Not someone who thinks and hesitates.

五、谁不是一边燃一边丧，一边拼命一边又不想活了。

Who is not burning at the same time mourning， at the same time desperately at the same time do not want to live.

六、还好快乐没法买，不然我早就买到倾家荡产；还好悲伤没法卖，不然我现在已富可敌国了。

Fortunately， I can't buy happiness， otherwise I would have bought it broke; It's a good thing sadness can't sell， or I'd be rich by now.

七、这世间的浪漫与宠溺，请记得留予妈妈一份。

This world of romance and spoil， please remember to leave a mother.

八、人生无常，且活且珍惜，一晃就长大了，一晃就长老了，一晃就晃没了。

Life is impermanent， and live and cherish， a flash on the grow up， a flash on the elder， a flash on the gone.

九、什么都要查根问底，却又受不了真相的刺激，这就是女人的通病。

It is a common problem for women to get to the bottom of everything， but not to be stimulated by the truth.

十、很多事情，我并不是不知道，不在意，只是不想斤斤计较，不想戳穿你。那么请你在骗我的同时，也请注意点分寸。

A lot of things， I do not know， do not care， just do not want to haggle over every ounce， do not want to Pierce you. So please lie to me at the same time， also please pay attention to a bit of discretion.

十一、余生很长，愿你拥抱自己，努力成长，眼里长着太阳，笑里全是坦荡。

The rest of your life is very long， I wish you embrace yourself， strive to grow， with the sun in your eyes， smile is full of magnum opus.

十二、世界那么大，你总会遇到一个人，恰如其分的适合你，不用刻意迁就，可以任性撒娇，你们相爱，并且默契。

The world is so big， you will always meet a person， suitable for you， do not have to compromise deliberately， can be capricious sajiao， you love each other， and tacit understanding.

十三、其实孩子气，也没什么不好，人总有一天会长大，何必成熟太早，失去太早。

In fact， childish， there is nothing wrong， people will grow up one day， why mature too early， too early to lose.

十四、心态要高，姿态要低，不要看轻别人，更不要高估自己。不抱怨，让生活变好，是一个成年人永远的责任。

Mentality to high， low attitude， do not look down on others， not to overestimate their own. It is an adult's eternal duty not to complain and to make life better.

十五、如果没人护你周全，那就酷到没有软肋，你那么棒，不能毁在感情上。

If no one is there to protect you， it's so cool that you have no weakness. You're so good that you can't ruin your relationship.

十六、到了现在这个年纪，谁都不想再取悦了，跟谁在一起舒服就和谁在一起，包括朋友也是，累了就躲远一点。取悦别人远不如快乐自己。宁可孤独，也不违心。宁可抱憾，也不将就。

At this age， no one wants to please any more. He/she is comfortable with whoever he/she is with， including his/her friends. He/she will stay away when he/she is tired. It is far worse to please others than to be happy yourself. I'd rather be alone than go against my heart. Better regret than compromise.