一、生活的最佳状态就是：冷冷清清地风风火火。——木心

The best state of life is to be cold and windy.

二、生如蝼蚁当立鸿鹄之志，命薄如纸应有不屈之心。

Be like an ant when stand lofty ambition， life thin as paper should unyielding heart.

三、不管你承不承认，人确实是经历了一些事之后，就悄悄换了一种性格。

Whether you admit it or not， people do experience something and then quietly change their character.

四、等你到了一个阶段，有自己的事情做，有自己向往的地方，不依附任何人成全生命的意义，你谁都可以失去。

When you reach a stage where you have your own things to do and a place to look forward to， you can lose them if you don't depend on anyone to fulfill the meaning of life.

五、被偏爱的时候，千万别作被人珍惜的时候，也不要装正如一句话：“好景难遇，如你一般。”

When you are loved， don't be cherished. Don't pretend to be like the saying， “Good times seldom happen to you.”

六、有些话我们说了却做不到，那是我们还年轻；有些事我们做了也没有说，那是渐渐成熟了。

Some words we said but can not do， that is we are still young; Some things we did not say， that is gradually mature.

七、家，不需要金山银山。健康，就是最大的财富。平安，就是最好的幸福。

Home does not need gold or silver. Good health is over wealth. Peace is the best happiness.

八、经历越多就越不想说话，环境的不同，想说的话别人未必能懂，也就慢慢学会了自己默默承受。

Experience more more don't want to speak， the environment is different， want to say other people may not understand， also slowly learned to suffer in silence.

九、善良和爱都是免费的，但不是廉价的，你的善良，需要带点锋芒，你的爱，需要带些理智，带眼识人，毕竟不是所有人都配拥有它们。

Kindness and love are free， but they are not cheap. Your kindness needs an edge， and your love needs a sense and an eye. After all， not everyone deserves them.

十、这世上，没有能回去的感情。就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆。所以，我们只能一直往前。

In this world， there is no feeling to go back. Even if you do go back， you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing I can go back to is the memory in my heart. So， we have to keep going.

十一、后来才知道，好朋友不是通过努力争取来的，而是在各自的道路上奔跑时遇见的。

Only later did I know that good friends are not won by hard work， but met by running on their respective roads.

十二、泰戈尔说，不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。那我们要做的就是：怀揣希望去努力，静待美好的出现。

Tagore said， don't try so hard， the best things come when you least expect them to. So what we have to do is: try hard with hope and wait for something good to come along.

十三、车子有油、手机有电、卡里有钱！这就是安全感！指望别人都是扯淡！再牛逼的副驾驶，都不如自己紧握方向盘！

The car has the gas， the cell phone has the electricity， the card has money! This is security! Expecting others is bullshit! Then niubi co-pilot， are better than their own grip steering wheel!

十四、一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road， watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day， you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

十五、人是多么的脆弱，每一次苦难都会在我们身上留下难以磨灭的伤痕；人又是多么的坚强，只要苦难不足以致命，就能重新出发。

How fragile people are， every suffering will leave an indelible scar on our body; How strong people are， as long as the suffering is not fatal， you can start again.

十六、我希望你不会难过，也希望有人好好爱你。我希望你不会慌张，也希望有人给你安全感。我更希望你能平安喜乐，余生有人照顾你周全。

I hope you won't be sad and that someone will love you. I hope you won't panic and someone will give you a sense of security. I want you to have peace and joy and someone to take care of you for the rest of your life.