一、不是每个人都愿意承担你的负能量，也不是每个人都愿听你的焦灼不安。只有真正爱你的人，才会对你的处境感同身受。

Not everyone is willing to take on your negative energy， and not everyone is willing to listen to your anxiety. Only those who truly love you can empathize with your situation.

二、愿你，沉淀又执着，对每件热爱的事物全力以赴又满载而归，变成一个美好的人，做美好的事。

May you， precipitation and persistence， for every love of things go all out and return， become a good person， do good things.

三、不是所有的人都能知道时光的含义，不是所有的人都懂得珍惜，这世间并没有分离与衰老的命运，只有肯爱与不肯爱的心。

Not all people can know the meaning of time， not all people know how to cherish， this world is not separated and aging fate， only willing to love and refuse to love the heart.

四、把懒惰放一边，把丧气的话收一收，把积极性提一提，把矫情的心放一放，所有想要的，都得靠自己的努力才能得到。

Put aside the lazy， the depressed words of a collection， the enthusiasm to lift， put melodramatic heart， all want， have to rely on their own efforts to get.

五、成长就是释怀和原谅，当初那些觉得过不去的，现在看来就觉得自己当初怎么那么傻，干嘛要给自己心里填堵，活得开心是最重要的。

Growth is to let go and forgive， at the beginning of those who feel unable to go through， now it seems that they feel how stupid， why to give their own heart fill block， live happy is the most important.

六、做自己喜欢的事，爱自己喜欢的人，别奢望太多，别期望太多。

Do what you like， love who you like， don't expect too much， don't expect too much.

七、不属于我的伞，我宁愿淋雨走。不属于我的心，我宁愿不要。不属于我的人，我不会挽留。不是真心给我的东西，我不稀罕。

Do not belong to my umbrella， I would rather go through the rain. Does not belong to my heart， I would rather not. Don't belong to me， I will not retain. I don't want anything that isn't really given to me.

八、我坐了一夜也没见你回我消息，我想不是你不够爱我，只是这夜不够长。

I sit all night also did not see you return my message， I think is not you love me enough， just this night is not long enough.

九、喜欢别人的同时别忘了对自己也好一点，任何人都可能离开你，背弃你，只有你自己一直是自己的。

Like others at the same time don't forget to their own good， anyone can leave you， abandon you， only you have been their own.

十、等待时就开心，相遇时就欢喜。相处时就尽兴，告别时就用力。我希望自己的人生没有悔不当初，只有义无反顾。

Happy waiting， happy meeting. When we get along， we have fun. When we say goodbye， we say goodbye. I hope my life has no regrets， only without hesitation.

十一、没事就想想如何致富吧，别总在感情的世界里伤春悲秋，捏在手心的钱永远要比那抓不住的心踏实。

Nothing to think about how to get rich， don't always hurt in the world of feelings， pinched in the palm of the money is always more than that can not grasp the heart at ease.

十二、有时不得不承认：经过几年，原来感觉差不多的人，不知不觉中差距越来越大。

Sometimes have to admit: after a few years， the original feeling of the same person， imperceptibly in the gap is growing.

十三、生活不是每天新鲜，可能你遇见的人和事都是重复的，但是，安稳比什么都难得。

Life is not new every day， you may meet people and things are repeated， but， stable than what is hard.

十四、每件发生在你身上的事，无论美丑，都是礼物。如果你能带着信心和耐心，你想要的美好，时间都会给你。

Everything that happens to you， beautiful or ugly， is a gift. If you can bring confidence and patience， you want the good， time will give you.

十五、我们都是大人了，不能再像小孩子那样随口戏言，别轻易许诺自己办不到的事，别把自己的诚信一点一点消耗殆尽。

We are all grown-ups. We can no longer play games like children. We can't promise what we can't do.

十六、你必须给你自己安全感，如果钱能给你安全感，就努力去赚钱。如果被爱能给你安全感，那就努力变成一个值得被爱的人。

You have to give yourself a sense of security， and if money can give you a sense of security， try to make money. If being loved gives you security， try to be worthy of love.

十七、即便你未曾被人捧在手心，这也没什么了不起的，你要对自己说：你要好好爱自己。

Even if you're not being held in the palm of your hand， it's not a big deal. Just say to yourself， "love yourself."

十八、我想做一个很有钱的孤独患者，走我乐意的路，做我乐意的事，说我乐意的话，孤我乐意的独，做一个真正随性洒脱的人。

I want to be a rich lonely patient， walk the road I like， do what I like， say what I like， lonely I like alone， to be a really free and easy person.

十九、大多数人最终活成了自己最讨厌的样子，结婚生子工作赚钱，看似忙忙碌碌，实则内心空虚，生活早就没了惊喜。

Most people end up living in the most annoying way. They get married， have children， work and earn money. They seem busy， but they are actually empty inside.

二十、你尽情的糟蹋自己，心疼的是爱你的人，那个让你变成这样的人是不会内疚的，说不定还在背后嘲笑你，讽刺你。

You enjoy the abuse of their own， love is the people who love you， that let you become such a person is not guilty， may also laugh at you behind your back， sarcasm you.

二十一、只是希望能有个人，在我说没事的时候，知道我不是真的没事；能有个人，在我强颜欢笑的时候，知道我不是真的开心。

Just hope to have someone， when I say nothing， know that I am not really nothing; Can someone， in my fake smile， know that I am not really happy.

二十二、难过了就跑跑步，伤心了就放声哭。就是千万不要将自己的烂脸色公诸于世，不要以为对方偶然一句问候就可以抓住他讲自己的心事。长大了，就要学会不让身边的人为你的烂情绪买单。没有人会理会你的好吗，他们只会躲得远远的。

Sad to run， sad to cry. It is never to his rotten face to the world， do not think that the other side of the occasional greeting can catch him speak his mind. When you grow up， you have to learn not to let those around you pay for your bad emotions. No one will notice you okay？ They'll just stay away.

二十三、最让你想哭的话就是：不要哭。最让你觉得委屈的话就是：委屈你了。

The thing that makes you want to cry is: don't cry. The word that lets you feel grievance most is: grievance you.

二十四、最爱你的人总是难免说谎，比如爸妈对你说的：你吃吧，我不饿。恋人对你说的：没关系，我不难过。

The person who loves you the most is always hard to avoid to lie， for example parents say to you: you eat， I am not hungry. Lovers to you: it doesn't matter， I am not sad.